choice
Two and only two
Saturday, 14Sep2019 Filed in: quotes & thinkums
❝When someone starts offering two and only two alternatives, that's the cue to look for the fourth, fifth, and sixth choices.❞— NeoWayland, NeoNote — Abortion is not about women's rights
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Nudity, sex, love
Thursday, 23May2019 Filed in: quotes & thinkums⭐︎ sex
“Human beings are as much a part of nature as trees or birds, and the unclothed body expresses this belongingness directly and powerfully.”Read More...
Ro3 № 31
“In the old days, you would chastise people for reinventing the wheel. Now we beg, 'Oh, please, please reinvent the wheel.' ”
I was born that way
Monday, 22Oct2018 Filed in: quotes & thinkums⭐︎ modern adult pagans
Desire
Friday, 19Oct2018 Filed in: quotes & thinkums⭐︎ sex
❝Your desire does not control another's choice.❞— NeoWayland, sexual beings
NeoNote — Good and evil
❝Obviously I am not heathen, but I question that phrase "forces of darkness." Our World has both light and darkness, both are necessary for life, death, growth and renewal.
Perhaps it is just me, but I have issues with assigning good to light and evil to darkness. I probably have issues with the dualistic ideas of good and evil too. Sometimes what is "evil" for one group is "good" for another. If they are anything like the ones I've argued with, your "extreme right ideologies" probably see inclusiveness as very evil and damaging. I disagree, but it is their "evil."
Ah, now that is an interesting bit.
Bonewits pointed out that dualism, especially religious dualism, quickly shifts things to IS and IS NOT. If something IS NOT on the approved list, it is evil because the definitions and underlying assumptions don't allow any other possibility.
Long story short, without monotheism, the meaning of good and evil aren't so clear cut. It tends to be more in the nature of "this HELPS my tribe/city/nation" and "this HURTS my tribe/city/nation." It becomes relative and based on cost/benefit. It depends more on individual judgement and less on an Official List of "THOU SHALT NOTS."
But, since Bonewits is on the Disapproved List, this is just academic, right? An accused sexual predator and pedophile couldn't possibly have had good ideas…
I disagree.
I agree that unrestrained greed and unrestrained tribalism are bad. But so is unrestrained sex, unrestrained pacifism, unrestrained sugar, unrestrained sunbathing, unrestrained hair dyeing, unrestrained television, and unrestrained concrete. A little goes a long way, or as the old saying goes, moderation in all things.
Competition keeps us honest and is one big reason why we try to make things better.
*grins* I may bring the philosophy bit out. I enjoy it, I practice it, and I encourage it.
I was thinking about the Greeks and some of the philosophy of the Golden Mean, although the Buddhist version applies too.
Specifically I was thinking about self-discipline and responsibility. The Ethic of Reciprocity is usually associated with Christianity but predates Christianity and exists independently in other cultures. One of my party tricks is showing how people can build an entire social, ethical, and legal system using the EoR and without depending on authority granted from an Official Religion. And that brings us to unrestrained.
If we are talking about ethical restraints, those restraints have to be self-imposed. It's not really ethical otherwise. If a choice is imposed by force, it's not really a choice, is it?
Self-restraint goes right back to the EoR. If I want to be treated right, it's in my best interest to treat others right. We expect others to act morally and honorably. That gets into defining the Other which is a long subject. I'm going to skip that for our discussion here.
Every morning I have a glass of citrus juice with my breakfast. But it's a water glass, not a juice glass. Is that excessive? Some might say so. But it's my breakfast and my choice. As long as I am not depriving or harming others, then how is it anyone else's business?
That brings us to greed. If I want to continue having OJ, somehow I have to do something that someone else wants and is willing to pay for. With the division of labor, that becomes the free market. Voluntary exchanges between mutually consenting adults. To get what I want, I have to provide something they want.
Competition brings the second keystone of the free market: I can do better than that! Most fail, but the successes change everything.
You're absolutely right pointing out that competition doesn't mean destroying the other (odd how that word keeps cropping up). But the free market means that a company or person has to offer at least as much value as those around them, or someone else will sell.
It's not just buying and selling. Most people reading this site chose paganism or an alternative religion because that religion offered something that they couldn't get elsewhere.
One of the things I recently added to my lexicon, the two most important phrases in human history (www DOT neowayland DOT com SLASH lexicon SLASH tt SLASH #two)
“Let me help.”
“I can do better than that!”
And yes, I gave credit to Star Trek for the first.❞
NeoNotes are the selected comments that I made on other boards, in email, or in response to articles where I could not respond directly.
Fundamentalism denies others choice
Thursday, 22Mar2018 Filed in: quotes & thinkums
“The easy confidence with which I know another man's religion is folly teaches me to suspect that my own is also.”
Imposed
Tuesday, 13Feb2018 Filed in: quotes & thinkums⭐︎ practicals
“True compassion is more than flinging a coin to a beggar; it comes to see that an edifice which produces beggars needs restructuring.”
Journal 12Jan2018
I don't approve of older men having sex with young teens, but it has been happening from the beginning.
Read More...If this were a horror movie
Wednesday, 10Jan2018 Filed in: quotes & thinkums
“We're more popular than Jesus now; I don't know which will go first-rock 'n' roll or Christianity. Jesus was all right but his disciples were thick and ordinary. It's them twisting it that ruins it for me.”
Next step
Saturday, 06Jan2018 Filed in: quotes & thinkums
“Whenever I see these ads for shamanic weekends, I'm suspicious. Because shamanic ecstasy is terrifying.”
Choice
Tuesday, 02Jan2018 Filed in: quotes & thinkums
❝Faith is a personal choice. So are politics. One does not define the other.❞— NeoWayland, Paganism is not political
NeoNotes - style and a niche market
Sunday, 26Nov2017 Filed in: modern adult pagans⭐︎ NeoNotes
For all of the evidence of Christian bigotry, there's tolerance and pluralism right there beside it.
Read More...Worthy
Thursday, 13Jul2017 Filed in: quotes & thinkums
Worthy of freedom
Monday, 03Jul2017 Filed in: quotes & thinkums
❝How do you explain a Journey without moving into a Story? I am not sure you can.❞
— NeoWayland, Blessed Journeys
I am pagan
Thursday, 06Jul2017 Filed in: quotes & thinkums
“A spiritual organization with a hierarchical structure can convey only the consciousness of estrangement, regardless of what teachings or deep inspirations are at its root.The structure itself reinforces the idea that some people are inherently more worthy than others.”— Starhawk
Institution vs. individual choice
Monday, 08May2017 Filed in: quotes & thinkums⭐︎ modern adult pagans
“There is an arc there: a vector. It tells a story of steadily increasing individual choice about religious belief and expression, and as a result, steadily decreasing subscription to old religious systems that clash with both modern values and humanity's growing body of accumulated knowledge.”— Mark Green, Is Paganism Dying?
