Better than this
Can't you just see this one watching?
“Latin American Revolutions: Crash Course World History #31”
Two and only two
❝When someone starts offering two and only two alternatives, that's the cue to look for the fourth, fifth, and sixth choices.❞— NeoWayland, NeoNote — Abortion is not about women's rights
Watching the parade
Put in one and a half fingers of lemon juice from concentrate poured slowly down the inside edge of the glass.
Put in one finger of lime juice poured slowly down the opposite inside edge of the glass so it sits on the lemon juice.
Very slowly, fill up the rest of the glass with V8 juice.
If you have done it right, you can see three separate and distinct layers of juice.
Top with a few drops of tabasco sauce.
Drink with a straw.
The flavor will change as you sip, the ice melts, and the juices slowly mingle.
One off the bless list
- 1 cup flour
- 1 cup sugar
- 1 tsp. baking soda
- 1 egg
- 1 can of fruit cocktail
- brown sugar
Mix and bake at 350º for 1 hour with some brown sugar on top.
Lemon Lime V8
- one 20 oz can of crushed pineapple
- two fresh bananas
- 1/4 cup of shredded coconut
- Add one 12 oz can of frozen OJ concentrate
- 1/4 cup of water
Blend pineapple with it's juice.
Add bananas and coconut. Blend.
Add OJ concentrate and water. Blend.
Enjoy.
South Carolina Barbecue Pork Burgers
So I put Befores, Quotes & Thinkums, Gallery, and the Timetable in the main menu bar. I think people will find these useful if they can find them more easily.
Very simple cake
- 1 cup flour
- 1 cup sugar
- 1 tsp. baking soda
- 1 egg
- 1 can of fruit cocktail
- brown sugar
Mix and bake at 350º for 1 hour with some brown sugar on top.
Egg casserole
“Fall down twice, get up three times.”Probably related/derived from the old Japanese proverb Nana korobi, ya oki which translates as “Fall down seven times, stand up eight.”
No questions
I’m a naturist in both senses of the word. Life doesn’t always need clothes. I admire the human body. I hope you can too.
Added to the lexicon
“Haitian Revolutions: Crash Course World History #30”
Ro3 № 34
“Fall down twice, get up three times.”Probably related/derived from the old Japanese proverb Nana korobi, ya oki which translates as “Fall down seven times, stand up eight.”
Gibbs Rule #16
“If someone thinks they have the upper hand, break it.”
Law of triviality
“If it works, it’s true.”
“If a pattern of belief or behavior enables a being to survive and to accomplish chosen goals, than that belief or behavior is “true” or “real” or “sensible” on whatever levels of reality are involved.”
How we treat the Other
❝The trust we share among ourselves and how we use that trust is really what defines our community. I've said that how we treat the Other may be the defining characteristic of a great human civilization. I stand by that.❞— NeoWayland, Characters
Behind the scenes
“Because contemporary paganism is essentially so new, its underlying ethical structure is not particularly sophisticated.”
Added to the lexicon
Organized Religion and Organized Crime
Swimming and the sauna are two of the few non-sexual activities where nudity is openly accepted.
Read More...Contemporary paganism
I use pictures available on the web. I don't mess with consent forms. I don't show photos of sex. I don't show photos of naked kids.
Read More...Nude policy
“The French Revolution: Crash Course World History #29”
A Pict Song
“When I was a boy and would see scary things in the news, my mother would always say to me 'look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.'”
“Have YOU Found Jesus?” (Author Unknown)
“Learn how to see. Realize that everything connects to everything else.”Read More...
Look for the helpers
“Emotionally Extreme Experiences, Not Just “Positive” or “Negative” Experiences, Are More Meaningful in Life”
Read More...How to see
“Learn how to see. Realize that everything connects to everything else.”Read More...
Quietly
“The History Guy remembers the Calendar Act of 1750 and eleven lost days in 1750. It is a curious calendar-related piece of forgotten history that deserves to be remembere”
Read More...Added to the lexicon
“Tea, Taxes, and The American Revolution: Crash Course World History #28”
But for me, politics is not a part of paganism. Things don't go well when faith and politics are mixed. So I am saying that politics has nothing to do with the sunrise of the bright Moon. You can't find politics in an infant's laugh or in the call of a coyote.
Read More...Judge not by the label
But for me, politics is not a part of paganism. Things don't go well when faith and politics are mixed. So I am saying that politics has nothing to do with the sunrise of the bright Moon. You can't find politics in an infant's laugh or in the call of a coyote.
Read More...Gentle touch
Added to the lexicon
❝There's an old saying that pagans are failed librarians.❞
“The Amazing Life and Strange Death of Captain Cook: Crash Course World History #27”
Sunrise at the Troll Wall
Casually
I’m a naturist in both senses of the word. Life doesn’t always need clothes. I admire the human body. I hope you can too.
Added to the lexicon
“In an era where women undress their outfits & give their bodies so carelessly, become the rare wild woman that undresses her mind and soul & knows the worth of what she has to offer.”
“The Seven Years War: Crash Course World History #26”
Then I realized I was going to have to define intelligence.
Yeah. Okay.
What we call intelligence is actually three things that interconnect. Well, at least three things.
Read More...Old saying
❝This is the first truth.
We share life and through life we are all connected. We are measured in the lives we touch. We live to manifest and we manifest by living.❞
Intelligence
“Consider the holiness of your hands. They are how you do your work on this earth; they are a microcosm of the hands of the Goddess, and can change the world as easily as hers can.”
First truth
❝This is the first truth.
We share life and through life we are all connected. We are measured in the lives we touch. We live to manifest and we manifest by living.❞
Undresses her mind and soul
Consider the holiness of your hands.
See, people today like to forget, but pagans invented civilization. And trade. And philosophy.
Read More...My eighth sex rule
Really stand out
NeoNote — Not slur words
Before you can do one simple task, you have to do another task that gives you what you need to do the first. And before you can do the second, there is a third and fourth that you really should take care of.
Read More...“The Modern Shaman: A Guide to Carl Jung”
“Always work as a team.”
“The Spanish Empire, Silver, & Runaway Inflation: Crash Course World History #25”
“Like attracts like; to create a particular reality you must put out energy of a similar sort.”
Situational vortex
Working on my lexicon is sometimes like that.
I'd never heard the term black moon before. But in order to define that, I really needed to have a short blurb on February. And if I was going to do that, I really needed to do the rest of the months in the timetable as well. I'd only been putting it off for a year. Or five.
Anyway, a situational vortex is why sometimes something that seems simple ends up taking forever. Adding to a list of political links means going through the lexicon and finding the terms that are political. Then it means cross referencing those entires to the politics entry.
I enjoy it but it takes time. And it's not immediately obvious to the reader.
Gibbs Rule #15
“Always work as a team.”
Obsessed with Christians
I wrote about my thinking behind the link behavior here at Technopagan Yearnings and how I made it work.
Read More...Sunshine low in the sky
Added to the lexicon
“Some people worry that artificial intelligence will make us feel inferior, but then, anybody in his right mind should have an inferiority complex every time he looks at a flower.”
Revived 28Jul2019
“Nudity is a problem for Americans. It disrupts our social exchange.”
“The Atlantic Slave Trade: Crash Course World History #24”
Link behavior
I wrote about my thinking behind the link behavior here at Technopagan Yearnings and how I made it work.
Read More...Lexicon mini-indexes
“One cannot and must not try to erase the past merely because it does not fit the present.”
“The Columbian Exchange: Crash Course World History #23”
“Bend the line, don't break it.”
Erase the past
“Any pattern of data can be split into (at least) two patterns with “opposing” characteristics, and each will contain the essence of the other within itself.”
“Everything contains its opposite.”
I used to think that this was a silly thing Christians used to hide their own insecurity. And if I had my druthers, I'd put this is a caution box with the red banner and be done with it.
Read More...Added to the lexicon
My comments on the “Billy Graham rule”
“If anything can go wrong, it will — and in the most annoying manner possible.”
“The Renaissance: Was it a Thing? - Crash Course World History #22”
Gibbs Rule #11
“When the job is done, walk away.”
Keep a notebook
“Keep a notebook. Travel with it, eat with it, sleep with it. Slap into it every stray thought that flutters up into your brain. Cheap paper is less perishable than gray matter, and lead pencil markings endure longer than memory.”
Added to the lexicon
“Anything can be a person.”
“Columbus, de Gama, and Zheng He! 15th Century Mariners. Crash Course: World History #21”
“In which John Green teaches you about the beginning of the so-called Age of Discovery. You've probably heard of Christopher Columbus, who "discovered" America in 1492, but what about Vasco da Gama? How about Zheng He? Columbus gets a bad rap from many modern historians, but it turns out he was pretty important as far as the history of the world goes. That said, he wasn't the only pioneer plying the seas in the 1400s. In Portugal, Vasco da Gama was busy integrating Europe into the Indian Ocean Trade by sailing around Africa. Chinese admiral Zheng He was also traveling far and wide in the largest wooden ships ever built. Columbus, whether portrayed as hero or villain, is usually credited as the great sailor of the 15th century, but he definitely wasn't the only contender. What better way to settle this question than with a knock-down, drag-out, no holds barred, old-fashioned battle royal? We were going to make it a cage match, but welding is EXPENSIVE.”
Read More...Added to the lexicon
“There’s something therapeutic about nudity… Take away the Gucci or Levi’s and we’re all the same.”Read More...
Seven Principles of Leave No Trace
“Every sentient being lives in and quite possibly creates a unique universe which can never be 100% identical to that lived in by another.”
“Russia, the Kievan Rus, and the Mongols: Crash Course World History #20”
“You live in your cosmos and I’ll live in mine.”
Rocky river
“In which John Green teaches you the history of the Indian Ocean Trade. John weaves a tale of swashbuckling adventure, replete with trade in books, ivory, and timber. Along the way, John manages to cover advances in seafaring technology, just how the monsoons work, and there's even a disembowelment for you Fangoria fans.”
Read More...“Venice and the Ottoman Empire: Crash Course World History #19”
Added to the lexicon
“Int'l Commerce, Snorkeling Camels, and The Indian Ocean Trade: Crash Course World History #18”
Therapeutic
Not the thing
“Like attracts unlike; energy and actions often attract their “opposites.””
“Opposites attract.”
“Wait For It...The Mongols!: Crash Course World History #17”
“In which John Green teaches you, at long last, about the most exceptional bunch of empire-building nomads in the history of the world, the Mongols! How did the Mongols go from being a relatively small band of herders who occasionally engaged in some light hunting-gathering to being one of the most formidable fighting forces in the world? It turns out Genghis Khan was a pretty big part of it, but you probably already knew that. The more interesting questions might be, what kind of rulers were they, and what effect did their empire have on the world we know today? Find out, as John FINALLY teaches you about the Mongols.”
Read More...“Fairies, Aliens and Demons - Common Evolving Archetypes”
❝The deeper the passion, the harder it is to see beyond our expectations.❞— NeoWayland, pedestal problem
Between the moments
❝We pagans make a big deal about walking between the worlds, but sometimes I think we spend so much time trying to be in the world we want that we forget to be in the world we're in.❞— NeoWayland, Related to who?
“Mansa Musa and Islam in Africa: Crash Course World History #16”
Dancing naked
But there's a part of me that's sad that those ideas won't be part of the conversation going forward.
Read More...See beyond
Very little honor
“You don't waste good.”
❝What’s in a name? — Everything!❞
“The trouble with dancing naked is that not everything stops when the music does.”Read More...
❝Nudity is a problem for Americans.❞
Added to the lexicon
Swimming
❝Nudity is not sex. Sex is not love. Love is not nudity. Your desire does not control another's choice.❞
We forget
“The Crusades - Pilgrimage or Holy War?: Crash Course World History #15”
Journal - Friday, 24Mar2019
“Touch seems to be as essential as sunlight.”
Revived 24May2019
These blog entries have been reformatted and entered into the current directories. Redirect pages have been placed in the old locations.
Read More...Nudity, sex, love
“Human beings are as much a part of nature as trees or birds, and the unclothed body expresses this belongingness directly and powerfully.”Read More...
❝The Road goes ever on and on…❞
The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way
Where many paths and errands meet.
And whither then? I cannot say— J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring
Desert
“Understanding brings control; the more that is known about a subject, the easier it is to exercise control over it.”
Reinventing the wheel
Habitual nakedness
“Complete nudity in itself is not erotic. It becomes so only when preceeded by or contrasted to a state of dress. In this limited context then, all clothes become somewhat immoral, if we define immorality as inciting sexual interest. Habitual nakedness may indeed be capable of elevating man to a higher mental plane.”
Three Laws of Thermosecurity
“Only the mountain has lived long enough to listen objectively to the howl of the wolf.”
Ro3 № 32
“Once again there was the desert, and that only.”— Stephen King, The Gunslinger
Human experience
“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience. ”
My seventh sex rule
“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience. ”
Ro3 № 31
“In the old days, you would chastise people for reinventing the wheel. Now we beg, 'Oh, please, please reinvent the wheel.' ”
Touch and sunlight
“Touch seems to be as essential as sunlight.”
Part of nature
Gibbs Rule #4
“Mirrored Ceilings and Criss-Crossed Stairwells Give a Chinese Bookstore the Feeling of an M.C. Escher Woodcut”
Read More...Really there
Power trio
I’m a naturist in both senses of the word. Life doesn’t always need clothes. I admire the human body. I hope you can too.
“The Dark Ages...How Dark Were They, Really?: Crash Course World History #14”
“The future is not laid out on a track. It is something that we can decide, and to the extent that we do not violate any known laws of the universe, we can probably make it work the way that we want to.”
The future
“The future is not laid out on a track. It is something that we can decide, and to the extent that we do not violate any known laws of the universe, we can probably make it work the way that we want to.”
Listen objectively
“Only the mountain has lived long enough to listen objectively to the howl of the wolf.”
❝Beings within…❞
“Be so good they can't ignore you.”
McGee Rule #70
❝Humans do change the planet. But humans don't change the climate.❞— NeoWayland, anthropogenic climate change
❝Be so good they can't ignore you.❞
“Be so good they can't ignore you.”
Bright smile
Added to the lexicon
Humans do change the planet
❝Humans do change the planet. But humans don't change the climate.❞— NeoWayland, anthropogenic climate change
Gaia is not a frail child
“Islam, the Quran, and the Five Pillars All Without a Flamewar: Crash Course World History #13”
“In which John Green teaches you the history of Islam, including the revelation of the Qu'ran to Muhammad, the five pillars of Islam, how the Islamic empire got its start, the Rightly Guided Caliphs, and more. Learn about hadiths, Abu Bakr, and whether the Umma has anything to do with Uma Thurman (spoiler alert: it doesn't). Also, learn a little about the split between Sunni and Shia Muslims, and how to tell if this year's Ramadan is going to be difficult for your Muslim friends. Let's try to keep the flame wars out of this reasoned discussion.”
Read More...“Fall of The Roman Empire...in the 15th Century: Crash Course World History #12”
American obsession
“In which John Green teaches you the history of Christianity, from the beginnings of Judaism and the development of monotheism, right up to Paul and how Christianity stormed the Roman Empire in just a few hundred years. Along the way, John will cover Abram/Abraham, the Covenant, the Roman Occupation of Judea, and the birth, life, death and legacy of Jesus of Nazareth. No flame wars! Let's keep the commentary civil.”
Read More...Added to the lexicon
Their compromise gave other faiths a wedge into the American religious landscape.
Read More...NeoNote — For your own good
It means I watch for the exceptions where neither IS nor IS NOT applies. It means our understanding is limited by our perception and assumptions at the moment.
Read More...“Christianity from Judaism to Constantine: Crash Course World History #11”
❝If monotheism was all that amazing, it wouldn't have spent centuries trying to suppress alternatives. Still does in the case of some versions of Islam.❞
NeoNote — Mostly
It means I watch for the exceptions where neither IS nor IS NOT applies. It means our understanding is limited by our perception and assumptions at the moment.
Read More...If monotheism was all that amazing…
“The Roman Empire. Or Republic. Or...Which Was It?: Crash Course World History #10”
Added to the lexicon
❝Knowledge isn't mastery. Eclecticism depends on discipline.❞— NeoWayland, Eclecticism, Discipline, & Mastery
“Who Invented Parkour?”
“Don't worry about what anybody else is going to do. The best way to predict the future is to invent it.”
“Alexander the Great and the Situation ... the Great? Crash Course World History #8”
“It is a good rule in life never to apologize. The right sort of people do not want apologies, and the wrong sort take a mean advantage of them.”
Added to the lexicon
Pagans can be some of the most computer literate people I know. But every once in a while, I run into a blind spot.
Read More...❝Knowledge isn't mastery. Eclecticism depends on discipline.❞
“We’re developing a new citizenry. One that will be very selective about cereals and automobiles, but won’t be able to think.”
Apologize
“It is a good rule in life never to apologize. The right sort of people do not want apologies, and the wrong sort take a mean advantage of them.”
New citizenry
❝I got better at dealing when I stopped arguing and just did my thing.❞
❝The worst of all deceptions is self-deception.❞
“The worst of all deceptions is self-deception.”
❝Beings within…❞
“It is possible to establish internal communication with entities from either inside or outside of oneself, said entities seeming to be inside of oneself during the communication process.”— Isaac Bonewits, The Laws of Magic, The Law of Invocation
Better at dealing
The myth can be more comfortable than the truth, but the myth can keep us from growing
Read More...❝Don't start nothing, won't BE nothing!❞
Don't worry
“The worst of all deceptions is self-deception.”
Distasteful
❝If we wrap ourselves in sorrow and pain and misery and self-loathing, then that is exactly what we attract.❞— NeoWayland, Invoking passion for failure or success?
Part of my offering
❝Honor and the other classic virtues are part of what we choose for ourselves as Pagans.❞— NeoWayland, The Old Breed
“2,000 Years of Chinese History! The Mandate of Heaven and Confucius: World History #7”
Added to the lexicon
Like calls to like
❝If we wrap ourselves in sorrow and pain and misery and self-loathing, then that is exactly what we attract.❞— NeoWayland, Invoking passion for failure or success?
Classic virtues
❝Honor and the other classic virtues are part of what we choose for ourselves as Pagans.❞— NeoWayland, The Old Breed
That's my joke you see.
I've been doing some research and the possibilities look pretty good. Read More...
The universe has a sense of humor
“Science commits suicide when it adopts a creed.”
A novel?
In 2011, Jack Greene dropped into ours.
“Science commits suicide when it adopts a creed.”
“In which John relates a condensed history of India, post-Indus Valley Civilization. John explores Hinduism and the origins of Buddhism. He also gets into the reign of Ashoka, the Buddhist emperor who, in spite of Buddhism's structural disapproval of violence, managed to win a bunch of battles.”
Read More...Personally I'd be willing to live and let live with Christians.
❝I don't understand why any group should change their language, practices, customs or actions when the shooter was not part of the group or the community.❞Read More...
I wouldn't call Christian Day an idiot.
NeoNote — This tragedy does not reflect on Heathens.
“In which John compares and contrasts Greek civilization and the Persian Empire. Of course we're glad that Greek civilization spawned modern western civilization, right? Maybe not. From Socrates and Plato to Darius and Xerxes, John explains two of the great powers of the ancient world, all WITHOUT the use of footage from 300.”
Read More...“Buddha and Ashoka: Crash Course World History #6”
There is nothing that prevents people from following religious law. But there is nothing that demands others follow those same religious laws.
Read More...Two wolves
“An old Grandfather said to his grandson, who came to him with anger at a friend who had done him an injustice, "Let me tell you a story.
I too, at times, have felt a great hate for those that have taken so much, with no sorrow for what they do.
But hate wears you down, and does not hurt your enemy. It is like taking poison and wishing your enemy would die. I have struggled with these feelings many times." He continued, "It is as if there are two wolves inside me. One is good and does no harm. He lives in harmony with all around him, and does not take offense when no offense was intended. He will only fight when it is right to do so, and in the right way.
But the other wolf, ah! He is full of anger. The littlest thing will set him into a fit of temper. He fights everyone, all the time, for no reason. He cannot think because his anger and hate are so great. It is helpless anger,for his anger will change nothing.
Sometimes, it is hard to live with these two wolves inside me, for both of them try to dominate my spirit."
The boy looked intently into his Grandfather's eyes and asked, "Which one wins, Grandfather?"
The Grandfather smiled and quietly said, "The one I feed."”— Two Wolves from First People
NeoNote — Religion & morality
“Well done is better than well said.”
“The Persians & Greeks: Crash Course World History #5”
Added to the lexicon
“Sadly, it's much easier to create a desert than a forest.”
❝Life isn't about finding yourself.❞
“It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.”
Trouble
“In which John covers the long, long history of ancient Egypt, including the Old, Middle and New Kingdoms, and even a couple of intermediate periods. Learn about mummies, pharaohs, pyramids and the Nile with John Green.”
Read More...❝Do not let your fire go out…❞
“A thing is right when it tends to preserve the integrity, stability and beauty of the biotic community. It is wrong when it tends otherwise.”
Change
“I had the fortune or misfortune to learn how to read fluently starting at the age of three. So I had read maybe 150 books by the time I hit 1st grade. And I already knew that the teachers were lying to me.”
Seek wisdom
“Seek wisdom in books, rare manuscripts, and cryptic poems if you will, but seek it out also in simple stones, and fragile herbs, and in the cries of wild birds. Listen to the whisperings of the wind and the roar of water if you would discover magic, for it is here that the old secrets are preserved.”
DiNozzo Rule #3
“Never underestimate your opponent.”
“Magick is the essence of change and evolution” banner
❝All things are possible, though some are more probable than others.❞
“Nature always wears the colors of the spirit.”
❝I already knew that the teachers were lying to me.❞
“Nature favors those organisms which leave the environment in better shape for their progeny to survive.”
Multiple and diverse
“There is nothing permanent except change.”
Doxology
“Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
❝A thing is right…❞
“A thing is right when it tends to preserve the integrity, stability and beauty of the biotic community. It is wrong when it tends otherwise.”
❝Well done is better than well said.❞
“Well done is better than well said.”
NeoNote — Politicos want problems they can stage-manage
Added to the lexicon
“Give them the third best to go on with; the second best comes too late, the best never comes.”— Robert Watson-Watt. See also Rules of Three
“There’s always something new”
“The age of innocent faith in science and technology may be over.”
My sixth sex rule
DiNozzo Rule #1
“Don't sit on the sidelines while your people are in trouble.”
Innocent faith
“The age of innocent faith in science and technology may be over.”
❝Conservation is getting nowhere…❞
“In which John presents Mesopotamia, and the early civilizations that arose around the Fertile Crescent. Topics covered include the birth of territorial kingdoms, empires, Neo-Assyrian torture tactics, sacred marriages, ancient labor practices, the world's first law code, and the great failed romance of John's undergrad years.”
Read More...“Don’t do it if you don’t want it done to you.”
❝Bad money drives out good.❞
“ When two coins are equal in debt-paying value but unequal in intrinsic value, the one having the lesser intrinsic value tends to remain in circulation and the other to be hoarded or exported.”— Gresham's law, (original version)
“The Story is not the Journey” banner
“Perfect is the enemy of good.”
❝Nature always wears the colors of the spirit.❞
“Nature always wears the colors of the spirit.”
Nature favors
“The Gods and Goddesses of myth, legend and fairy tale represent archetypes, real potencies and potentialities deep within the psyche, which, when allowed to flower permit us to be more fully human.”
Easier
“The number of phenomena to be known is infinite; one will never run out of things to learn.”
Difficult problems
❝Gods and Goddesses of myth…❞
“The Gods and Goddesses of myth, legend and fairy tale represent archetypes, real potencies and potentialities deep within the psyche, which, when allowed to flower permit us to be more fully human.”
“Mesopotamia: Crash Course World History #3”
“Gods of Arabs before Islam”
❝We don't have a perfect solution. But we don't need one. We just have to make today better than yesterday.❞
❝Perfect is the enemy of good.❞
“Perfect is the enemy of good.”
Third best, second best, best
“Never make fun of someone if they mispronounce a word. It means they learned it by reading.”
Perfect solution
“I don’t explain — I explore.”
Curveball
“If you’re not ready to find exceptional things, you won’t discover them.”
Mispronounce
“The genius is the one most like himself.”
Explore
“Everywhere I go I find a poet has been there before me.”
Exceptional things
“There is only one difference between a madman and me. I am not mad.”
Genius
Pardon, but I think there is a difference between rapes occurring and rape culture.
Read More...Everywhere I go
“Worthless people live only to eat and drink; people of worth eat and drink only to live.”
NeoNotes — Rape culture
❝Rape is a terrible thing. Pagans and heathens have had more than our share of bad apples. We tend to attract the outliers and nonconformists.
But, America is not a rape culture. I won't speak for Europe. Not anymore.
The #MeToo movement never could have happened in a rape culture. It would not have been allowed. There would not be news stories about rape. Men would not be willing to talk to women about consent and mutual pleasure from sex. Nor would women have the right to own property, to vote, and to accuse rapists.
I bet that for every one person in America that thinks rape is acceptable, I can find thousands who don't. In those thousands, I bet that I can find hundreds who might decide a very physical response was appropriate. Personally I think removing body parts might be a good start.
By all means, do as you will to raise awareness of consent. Do what you can so people can enjoy sex with someone they care about. Respect each other and each other's boundaries.
But America is not a rape culture.
Thinking about it, that may be what bothers me most.
I firmly believe that most people are decent. I think I resent the implication that most men and women (yes, I said women) can't be trusted to behave themselves. There are always going to be bad elements, but most people are basically good no matter what their "race," gender, sexuality, or taste in socks. I resent the implication that people basically can't be trusted.
I think one of my pass-alongs sums it up.
“The people who pay attention to the law aren't the ones you have to worry about.”
Pardon, but I think there is a difference between rapes occurring and rape culture.
Perhaps I am mistaken, but I think a rape culture actively and legally encourages rape. The examples that leap to mind are certain Islamic groups and nations.
We have thieves, but we do not live in a theft culture. We have murders, but we do not live in a murdering culture.
Rape is a terrible thing and absolutely should be punished. But not every person is a rapist, nor is every man. Today women are much more likely to be believed if they report a rape, that wasn't necessarily true twenty or thirty years ago. At the same time, I read about some of the things happening in Europe and Africa right now (even leaving out the Middle East) and I don't think American women have the slightest idea what a real rape culture is.
It's easy to toss the phrase around, but that doesn't mean it's accurate.
That isn't the case with most of American society and culture.
I will grant you that is glamorized and celebrated by certain very visible people. I also think that some if not most "feminist allies" call themselves that and say the "right" things so they can take advantage.
What I see is the assumptions and punitive measures taken against people (men & women) who don't rape or even think about it. And then I see abusive behavior excused if the person happens to have the right politics or connections, like what happened prior to #MeToo.
It's not even a matter of "all men are rapists." Almost all men aren't rapists and would be horrified if it happened to someone they know, much less care for. At the same time, men are castigated if they dare give an admiring look, or actually hold a door open for somebody.❞
NeoNotes are the selected comments that I made on other boards, in email, or in response to articles where I could not respond directly.
Only one difference
“Never screw over your partner.”
Eat and drink
Gibbs Rule 1?
“I don't care who gets the laughs on my show, as long as the show is funny.”
❝You can become another.❞
“The clearest way into the Universe is through a forest wilderness.”
My fifth sex rule
Dragon aurora
Added to the lexicon
Abby Rule #9
“The pursuit of truth and beauty is a sphere of activity in which we are permitted to remain children all our lives.”
‘I told you so'
“Neither by nature, then, nor contrary to nature do the virtues arise in us; rather we are adapted by nature to receive them, and are made perfect by habit.”
Pursuit of truth and beauty
“Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle.”
Full of magic things
“The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper.”
Virtue
“Neither by nature, then, nor contrary to nature do the virtues arise in us; rather we are adapted by nature to receive them, and are made perfect by habit.”
Strength and growth
“Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle.”
Who gets credit
“Always keep a spare.”
Clearest way
Ro3 № 28
❝There are three types of history. There's the Official History™, there's the stories that people tell, and there's what really happened.❞— NeoWayland, Synchronicity, coincidence, perception, and perspective, see also Rules of Three
❝Just cause it’s invisible don’t mean it ain’t there.❞
Dancing Trees
“Nobody who says, ‘I told you so’ has ever been, or will ever be, a hero.”
Gentle stretch
“The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper.”
❝Beings without❞
“It is possible to establish external communication with entities from either inside or outside of oneself, said entities seeming to be outside of oneself during the communication process.”
Ro3 № 27
❝A living faith draws from three sources. There's what others have done before you. There's who you are and what you've done. And finally there's the link you make to the Divine. The dynamic tension shapes your faith.❞— NeoWayland, Faith Triad, see also Rules of Three
Polarities
“Never apologize for grief. For honoring the memory of people you’ve lost by admitting how much they meant to you when you had them.”— David Weber, Uncompromising Honor
Ro3 № 24
“Study: People Who ‘Microdose’ LSD and Magic Mushrooms Are Wiser and More Creative”
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Added to the lexicon
Snow on red rock
“In which John Green teaches you about the Indus Valley Civilization, one of the largest of the ancient civilizations. John teaches you the who, how, when, where and why of the Indus Valley Civilization, and dispenses advice on how to be more successful in your romantic relationships.”
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