Intimacy
My views on the pillow talk problem have been professionally validated. On, not me specifically. But it's there.
❝Sex and intimacy, says Wilder, are closely connected. But in the decades since the sexual revolution of the 1960s the focus has been more and more on sex and less and less on intimacy. “Of course, you can have sex without intimacy, just as you can have intimacy without sex. But when you put the two together you have an experience that is in a different ballpark when it comes to fulfilment,” he says. “The problem is, people are afraid of intimacy, they’re afraid to articulate the desires that could lead to real intimacy – but if we don’t articulate those desires we will never experience the potential of a relationship.”❞
—Joanna Moorhead, Let’s talk about intimacy – and why it makes for better love and sex
Yep.
An appropriate May Day thought.